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Rise and Grind
An exhausted morning spirals into a day ruled by clocks, productivity, and quiet resentment. Trapped in routines that reward busyness over being, the narrator reflects on how work became identity, rest became guilt, and life slipped by on autopilot—until a forced pause revealed a truth: productivity is not purpose, and we still have the freedom to choose differently.
Ioana
2 days ago12 min read


Working 9 to 5
This article traces my working life across multiple jobs, countries, and teams, exploring how ambition, burnout, love, and survival shaped my career. I learned early that hard work doesn’t always equal fairness, that some managers will hold you back, and that toxic environments can hollow you out. Yet, through it all, one thing made work bearable: the work besties who became chosen family and helped me survive 9 to 5.
Ioana
Feb 210 min read


Never Perfect
I was never good at colouring inside the lines. I’d try so hard to be perfect, but somehow, it always spilled over. That pressure—constant, loud—followed me through life: to school, to work, into the mirror. I chased elegance, beauty, success, always feeling like I fell short. But slowly, I learned that perfection is a myth. I’ve made peace with messy lines, flawed skin, and stretch marks kissed instead of shamed. I’m not perfect—but I’m real. And that, I’ve come to believe,
Ioana
Jan 1912 min read


In Two Minds
I often feel torn between what I want and what I know is right, like being in two minds. I overthink, second-guess, and sometimes choose comfort even when I see red flags. I try to grow, set boundaries, and understand my patterns, but it's hard. Advice, karma, and self-doubt all swirl in my head. Still, I keep refining my path. With compassion, reflection, and the right people, I’m learning to make choices that align with the person I want to be.
Ioana
Jan 510 min read


New Year Evolution
There are so many traditions around the holiday season. As soon as December hits, all the Christmas carols start to be broadcast everywhere. The decorations and the lights start going up. Everybody starts looking at the weather forecast, and they start wishing for a white Christmas. Start planning menus, start planning parties. They get family heirlooms out that are connected with the season and display them. Everybody is suddenly expected to be a better person and be kinder
Ioana
Dec 22, 20258 min read


Pursuit of happiness
Accepting imperfection, the pursuit of happiness, and the freedom found in letting go of unrealistic expectations.
Ioana
Dec 8, 202511 min read


Sleep, come to me.
Born at night, I've always struggled with sleep, from childhood routines to anxiety-induced insomnia. This is my relationship with sleep.
Ioana
Nov 24, 20259 min read


Age of Enlightenment
The ongoing journey of uncovering why we act the way we do, accepting our flaws, and embracing the discomfort that comes with growth.
Ioana
Nov 10, 202510 min read


Anything you can do; I can do better.
Competition - the act or process of trying to get or win something (such as a prize or a higher level of success) that someone else is also trying to get or win (Britannica Dictionary) Ever since the first organism crawled out of the primordial ooze, the principle that has driven evolution has been the survival of the fittest. The predator that is the smartest and the strongest will eat, while the weak one will perish. Even in a pack, the strongest eat first, while the weak a
Ioana
Oct 27, 20258 min read


Saving Fish from Drowning
An introspective exploration of the saviour complex, examining how a desire to help others can become toxic.
Ioana
Oct 13, 20259 min read


Trust… it’s an issue.
What a strange thing trust is. Strong enough to move mountains when it’s there, powerful enough to crumble them when it’s gone. Gain with...
Ioana
Sep 29, 202510 min read


Know when to hold them, know when to fold them!
This story touches on the intricacies of toxic relationships, self-awareness, and growth.
Ioana
Sep 15, 202510 min read


Tell me thy name, Demon!
This article explores my struggle with anger
Ioana
Sep 1, 202510 min read


Are we there yet?
Ongoing emotional struggles, recognizing patterns from the past, seeking support, and accepting that healing is a gradual process.
Ioana
Aug 18, 20257 min read


Counting my blessings
Story sequence describing the story so far.
Ioana
Aug 4, 20256 min read


Death comes for us all
This is my struggle with depression & suicidal thoughts. A reminder that even in our darkest times, healing is possible & we are not alone.
Ioana
Jul 21, 20257 min read


Decisions! Decisions!
This is a story about overthinking a decision paralysis. Through self-awareness, I’m learning to trust myself more and embrace uncertainty.
Ioana
Jul 7, 20258 min read


“No” is a full sentence.
This process of reclaiming personal agency and learning to honour my own needs is a testament to the power of self-awareness and growth.
Ioana
Jun 23, 20259 min read


My Sister, My Friend
Growth, reconciliation, and redefining familial ties show the importance of vulnerability and choosing to invest in meaningful relationships
Ioana
Jun 9, 20258 min read


Taking care of #1
Journey of self-care and personal growth, focusing on the challenges of balancing care for others with tending to my own needs.
Ioana
May 26, 20258 min read
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